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41-50,
anonymous
writes:we had been together just over 2 years, he is now 46 and im 26 now, he ended it , but he texts me through the week when he aint got anyone else, then from thursday till monday/tuesday i dont hear from him at all he dont answer ma calls or texts,yet he texts or calls me to c if i want to go up his and stay in with him (usually mon, tue, wed)which i end up doing. we sleep together and it feels ok then then he complety blanks me, what is that all about? does he even care bout me at all? my head is so fucked up ////////
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2008): I agree, your ex has made a decision to move on and he is stringing you along until something better comes along.
This is his failing, not yours. He is way too old for you in my opinion and probably his intentions were never to be serious or have a permanent relationship with you. He was with you for two years which indicates he cared for you, but it is over, he has outgrown you or you may have even outgrown him....Chalk this up to experience and move on. Stay unattached for a long while until you feel less vulnerable, it is hard to get over someone you have been with for that long, but you will. My guess is you know this wasn't working or you wouldn't need to ask this question, take it as a sign that you aren't that into him either.
Take care darling.
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reader, fishnchips +, writes (11 October 2008):
im sorry but theres no other way of saying this, but by the looks of things hes just using you and probably doesnt have feelings for you. the best thing to do if you still care is to let him know how you feel and talk it through with him, if he doesnt feel for you or he wont talk with you then its probably time to move on. find someone who can return your love, youre worth more than just sex.
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