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writes:Hi guys I was just wondeing if you think this situation is normal. I have been dating a guy for 3 months who is 32. I just found out im his first girlfriend EVER. This explains why the sex was lousey at the start (he was a virgin but never told me, he is a VERY quick learner though).He is totally sweet, caring, attractive, and fun but it cant be normal to never have had a partner by the age of 32 can it? DO you think there is something wrong with him?Im thinking that maybe there is something wrong with me for being so shallow that I doublt him as a person because of the mere fact i was his first? Reply to this Question
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reader, penguin64  +, writes (8 October 2008):
 maybe he didnt see the point if he didnt think they were right for him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2008): Hun, I am not sure why you are looking a gift horse in the mouth.There are people who are not ready to have any relationship till they find the right person.Loneliness is not an issue as they are very interesting and can find things to keep themselves from being bored.Instead of being with a very boring partner just for the sake of getting physically satisfied(yawn) wouldn't it be better to wait until the right time.Till then the person can aim on becoming successful in his life.There are other things in life too....The other case might be that he was very shy and reticent or the culture in his country demanded him to be a virgin.By the way you describe him seems like a great guy.nothing seems to be wrong with him.There is nothing wrong with you either.The world has just become a place filled with suspicions that honest to good people are considered aliens.Anyways forget your doubts and just have fun!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2008): That doesn't really mean anything. Maybe he was just shy and he never really connected with anyone. Sometimes I wonder what my mates exs were like. What they did. I'm a bit jealous that I wasn't able to meet him years ago, but I was busy and life was not was it is now. He might be at the same point. Maybe he liked a girl, but she hurt him. You just never know. Communication. You either have to let it go or let him go.
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