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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Yesterday i went to the pub i go to and where i meet by ex bf. I really wanted him to notice me so i dressed smart and casual to impress him, when i got there only his mate was, next thing i know was his mate on the phone and no sign of him like his mate had told him i was there my ex usually picks him up to go to another pub.His mate left shortly after . Do you think my ex is trying to avoid me and never wants to see me again, he called it off and said we should stay mates. Also many people in the bar no him and its like they stare at me all the time. Am i just being paranoid? I don't think i have done anything wrongany advice will be great thank you x merry christmas x
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2007): Well about the part on how all the people at the pub stare at you, I think you are being paranoid. Maybe they are looking at you cause they think you look pretty.
Secondly, I think it is possible that your guy is avoiding you. I mean by what you have said about how he broke up with you and then you go to the pub looking to run into him it just sounds like he wants to move on but you can't let go. So yeah he might be avoiding you. And if not, certainly your presence at the pub had no effect on him as his friend just left and never came back.
I don't know that he never wants to see you again, but I think that you should avoid contact with him and just move on cause it does sound like he might be annoyed and might not want to run into you right now. Furthermore you should care about your reputation cause then word will get around that you are chasing this guy after he left you and people might talk behind your back.
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