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female
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30-35,
*ickie123
writes:well i always wondered about having a boyfriend would be weird fun cool in t.v it loks perfect i know im sounding like a little girl with to much illusions .......well im not desperate to be with a guy that much im just wondering would guys date a girlthats..1.cinfident about herself2respects others3not concited4pretty has to be perfect 5just perfectall my friends have boyfriends and girlfriends sometimes i have to lie about me having a boyfriend which isn't true ..i know its wrong on lying of my friends but i just dont want to be the only one that's left out in the group....... i have crushes but they dont even notice me and when i dont notice them they would ask me out and i punk out i dont know what to do would i ever have a boyfried??
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2009): Absolutely!
Girls like you are the kind that men dream about having when they are older. However, in high school, boys only want girls who are paper cutouts and dote all over them.
I was like you. I didn't date in high school, but as soon as i got out into the world, BAM! They were all waiting for me.
Be yourself, and don't be what you think someone else wants you to be. Love will come along when it is the right time.
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reader, 48years  +, writes (10 January 2009):
 I felt the same way - my crush was David Cassidy...
Anyways, the wonder and beauty of it all is waiting for you. Of course you'll have a boyfriend - many, many of them. Each one will teach you something new. Some may break your heart for a bit, but you'll recover. Sometimes you'll be the one who breaks someone's heart.
You will then one day, chose wisely whom you'd want to share your life with.
Until then, sweetheart, stay confidant, strong and smart. Try lots of new things and learn as much as you can about this world.
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