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writes:Hi guys I hope you can help me with this. Ive been seeing a new guy for about a month and we have usually met up twice a week. Things are going really well apart from one thing. He used to live in the same place where i am in college but now he has gone home. This poses problems like how are we going to see each other etc?? He told me he likes me and at the moment thats all i need to hear as i dont want to rush into a relationship. The thing that bothers me is that when we first started meeting up he used to text me a lot, maybe every second day. But now he doesnt text me a lot, and if i text him i might get a one word answer back. The other night i rang him and he said he had been meaning to ring me and we talked and it was fine. I havent heard from him since and that was three days ago. Im just wondering why he went from texting every day to barely texting at all? I think id like to hear from him more as we have become pretty close and sometimes it doesnt feel like we are dating at all but the trouble is how to i break it to him that id like him to text me more often?? Do you think I should stop texting him altogether and wait till he texts me? If he says he cannot text me that often what should my reaction be? Any help would be great.
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reader, hannah76  +, writes (21 March 2008):
 HI,
He doesn't seem to be doing enough for me to want this relationship/friendship. It could have been him moving away to another area....not your fault. Don't analyse the ifs and buts of all this, just slacken off now and see if he contacts you. Good luck! H.
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