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male
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36-40,
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writes:Ok there is this guy that I was seeing since June 2009 until January this year, he says he’s bisexual and likes girls more than guys, but he told me he would never have a relationship with a guy or have sex with a guy, but after a few weeks of knowing each other we was texting every day and meeting up on nights out with our friends and lying to our friends saying we was going to the cash machine so we could sneak off for a kiss somewhere, things ended up getting serious between us and we ended up in a relationship he told me he loved me (which normally it’s me who says It first) spent at least 4/5 days a week together going shopping and having meals out and even going to the pictures, and the whole period that the xfactor was on he would spend every single Friday Saturday and Sunday at mine and we would play COD MW2 online and watch xfactor at the weekend which was amazing, but while all this was going on no one knew about us because he wasn’t out and didn’t want anyone to know because if his parents got wind of it they would of gone mad because they hate gays, so we had a bit of a problem.After time his friends said it was obvious what was going on between us and said they could see we was in love etc. so things started getting a little rocky and to cut a story short he’s now told me he wants to be just friends this “gay” thing isn’t him, which I would believe if we had sex just the once but we didn’t so to me if he was curious he wouldn’t let a guy have sex with him more than once, not to mention the fact he told me he loved me also on new year’s day we was at his dads and his dad was like two seats away and he was holding my hand and touching my crotch which in my eyes if this was just a phase then you wouldn’t risk such a thing knowing how his dad feels about gays, even his best mate said he thinks he wants to be with me but is scared!! I’ve not spoken to him in 3 weeks and I’m starting to miss him a lot and his friends have told me give him time and he will come back but I’m starting to think thats not the case and just want to know what you guys think? Any advice would be great
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reader, 738  +, writes (2 February 2010):
Um im a girl but i thought it would be fun to reply i used to be against gays and bi ppl untill i realized i kinda liked girls all that matters is that your happy i hope he comes back to you or you find someone else anyway i wish you luck and if you want keep in touch with me and just reply and and tell me what happens and stuff :^]
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