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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes: .because i am ugly ducking who never grew in to swan does any girl grow from ugly duckling to swan? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2009): stop making excuses. you will never solve your problems if you make excuses for them. if there really are no social outlets in your town, then I have two words for you: online dating. If you really want to find a husband, then you need to put yourself out there, somehow. you need to find ways to make yourself attractive to men. not all men are pigs, and plenty of heavier (i.e. not morbidly obese) women are attractive. if you need to go on a diet and exercise, then do that. try smiling and being cheerful, even if it is an act. those two little things go a long way. if a guy responds to your ad, don't reject him simply because he doesn't measure up in every way to what you think is your perfect match. no one is perfect. you know how it feels, so have have a GOOD reason before rejecting a guy that shows interest.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2009): dont think that you are ugly because you are not. we have become so used to comparing ourselves with others who we believe are "good looking" we forget that we are just as or are even more good looking than them. there is someone out there for you so dont worry!!!
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2009): A female age 26-29, anonymous writes:thats mei find guys my age can have any type of girl as a gilfrind they want,they can get married the space of year.i really worried i,ll end on my own like done over the yaers through no fault of my own . there is no where to go where i from.no sports facilites,no nighclubs,few pubs very small,no gym.only a few small shops,4 banks,there is employment in the town,any guy i liked has awlays i means asked some one eles out and married them in a very short time,i don,t likes sitting at home but i have option,i ahve no car and no job, no confidence with guys i am extermy nervous of them.i have being so may times before.those guys never like me becasue they always telling me about there girlfreinds knwing full well i like them but they don,t care about,i would go out with who likes me but i don,t like them.i am begger not choser,THOSES NEVER EVER LIKE ME.I AM UP TO THERE STARDATRDS AT ALL.i crave love and affection juts like every body but i get rejected .i meet all the wrong guys guys who too indepdent and fill themselves,they only wnat the girls they ,ll care about not me.i have never a boyfreind i don,t know to get one and i never being kissed ,i don,t like dating agency or dating web sites,i,d love job and hexach social life but there none where i live and moving isn,t option i can,t get job,if i get job i,ll get move no job,no move ,no social ife.
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