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writes:Well, I have a friend that i really have strong feeling for and who I would like to be more than just friends with. But the problem is that he has a girlfriend. Now, as his friend he tells me that she is not the one for him but never made an attempt to break up with her and their relationship is now going on one year. I know he likes me because we have lots in common an very close on a physical level. If anyone one was on the outside looking in between us, you would think we where way more than friends. We are more interactive with each other than my friend and his girlfriend is with each other. Now what do i do? Do i tell him how i feel, wait it out, or just leave him alone?
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reader, DV1 +, writes (31 May 2007):
 Never read more into something until you have definite proof. If he's still with this girl, he's obviously trying to salvage the relationship. Right now, he's taken, and it's appropriate to back off. Although you have feelings, he's taken, and all you can do is wait it out. I know that you probably want to scream out your feelings to the world, but there's a right time, and a wrong time. If he breaks up with his girlfriend, go up to him, tell him to let you talk, put it all on the table, then give him a minute to respond...
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reader, candy00s  +, writes (31 May 2007):
 Tell him how you feel - you are good friends so im sure even if nothing ever happens between you at least you will know you tried.
If he is in a relationship though make sure its over before anything may happen between you both.
If he doesnt feel the same (which i think he might!) then just be his friend.
:) xxxx
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