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writes:Wow do I have a panty fetish.I am married so that helps. But I have to touch satin panties everyday and see them. Its been going on for about 25yrs.my wife knows about it oviously but she don't know how bad it really is.if I'm going out of town she let's me take the pair she's wearing and I so much appreciate that but I love to wear them too that she don't know I get so hard when there on wow.I would love to share this with her but I've been hiding for so long. I think she might know already cause she does make sure I have hers when I'm gone.should I tell her how bad it is n I like to wear them and some other things with them or just hush up and if yes how do I tell her. Reply to this Question
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reader, sietnap  +, writes (29 June 2009):
I've had an obsession with panties for over 40 years, wearing them, sniffing them, licking them, and wanking into them. But it harms nobody, and I've led a fairly normal life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009): Wow. It is my biggest fear,that my husband will come up with something like that,one day. He stopped having sex with me years ago, and I know, something is ''not k with him'', but, I don't know what, as he knows very well how to hide his feelings.First he worked 24/7. Than he became impotent.. FOR NO KNOWN REASONS...Now this is enough indication for me to think, that he is hiding something ,you know what I mean. But I guess, nothing can push it out from him, untill he is not ready?I would be very interested to know, how a secret like that ,won't stop you from functional living? What is the main reason to keep a secret? Is it fear? Is it shame? And how is it possible, to live in secret land?But I think you are super cool, that you admit you have a problem. You should go for it, and go all the way! Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009): your wife seems to be a smart lady, she knows that fetishes are harmless providing they dont cross any lines. if your marrage is good and as your wife knows about your fetish i think you should tell her. if she isnt too cofortable tell her you wont do anything she doesnt want you to do, make sure what she would be happy/unhappy with regards to what you do and dont (eg, wearing them in public or when shes with you), just because she knows and lets you have her panties doesnt mean she likes it.
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reader, PeanutButter +, writes (15 April 2009):
 WOW! 25 years is a long time to keep something in! If your wife lets you take her panties with you when you go away or when she is away and if you have a good marriage then the chances are she already knows!If she is happy with you taking them now, perhaps it will do no harm in talking to her about how you feel??Maybe instead of jumping in the deep end and telling her you like to wear them etc, you could just tell her, honey, you know i like to take the panties with me, there are times i have thought about puting them on, do you think thats a little kinky? See what she says, test the waters. If she doesnt seem too wierded out by the question, she might even get a kick out of hearing about your fantasies. If the water is warm, take a little paddle in it, take it gently and se where the conversation goes. If it doesnt feel like its goig anywhere good just keep the wearing of the panties to yourself but just say it was just an idea.Invite her into your fantasies, she might even want to join in, it might put a huge jolt of sparks and electricity into your marriage, you just never know!I'd love to know how you get on though!!good luck!xx
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