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writes:Hey, id rather not give my details outbut worst has come to worse and i have resorted to asking strangers for adivce.but im 15, and thers a girl who iv liked for a couple of years on and off, but we have never been out. About 2 months ago i found out she likes me though, and i jumped in straight away and asked her out, but she said no because she wants to live her life, and i think she has commitment issues.shed tell me she fancies me, and id say i love her, but shed always say i didnt, and no matter how much id say it she wouldnt agree to it, or shed say it back but never properlylike on msn it would be.....ilveyounoti love youlike id say to herbut yeh, so in the last 2 months we spoke in school occasionally and every night wed spend hours speaking online, only coming on to speak to eeachother, but in the last 3 days, she seems so much less interested, and im coming to the stage where its like, ' is she ever going to go out with me ??' and so i have been kind of off with herbut i still love her, and i dont care what people say, i love her.im not embarrased to be seen with her, or to have the whole school know i fancy her. im sure its love,but yeh, basically she thinks i now dont fancy her, because iv been off with her, and so she is already saying shge doesnt fancy me, but her friends are saying she will soon though, i dont understand that though.and i have a million different people telling me what to do, but what i need is somneine whos been in this sit, some are telling me to give her space, and others are like, go see hertell her you love herbut she wouldnt be interested if i did, she had strict parentsshed be annoyed if i showed up at her houseso i dont know what to do and am so depressed with life, i dont want to do anything or speak to anyone, i feel i have a massive hole, and i dont wannt to hear people tell me to let her go.that makes things worse,i like to know i still have a chancethankyou
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009): The you are the fool to risk your years of education for an infatuation - give up messenger and go study. messenger will be there when you finish....
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou for the help
i understand what your saying,
but shes not very mature
she doesnt understand what shes putting me through.
and exactly, im so obsessed with her i dont revise for school
over the last year
iv dropped from A's to D's :o
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2009): growl yes, we are up there as one of the worst things to have to do...sigh.
Ok look you know really there are two choices here;
a) Either make a play for her - tall her how you feel. Be strong and say it to her face. If you are shy write it in a letter. Yes a Letter with a stamp - not an email. Tell how you think about her all the time.
- once you have done this, its all you can do. If she says no, then that's it game over. you walk away knowing you did what you should have done and you are the better man for it. Don't go mental or become a psycho - just play one card the tell her or the letter. Only . full stop.
b) She is isn't interested - walk away, be glad you have a friend and what you shared, but if she isn't in to you, then she isn't into you. Walk away and find someone who is.
Hope that helps.
Now why are you spending 3 hrs a night when you should be studying! you get on shot at these things and they are important. The girl will be there after.
Star.x.
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