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writes: Ok I'm 20 yo and bi..no one knows not even my best friends So anyway I'm at the mall with a friend I work with and I see a guy who was around 18 and couldn't help but to stare at himHe was wearing flip flops which was a plus lol..anyway I guess my friend saw me checking him out Cuz I heard him say your checking him out..well I just don't know What to do should I come out and tell him I'm bi or act like it never happend..
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009): Who knows your guy friend may have the hots for you.never deny, don't lie..Some people are closed minded..I lost a bunch of friends as they found out that I am bi..not sure they were really my friends..if they can't accept that that I love good people men and women..I wish it was simple just to let him know you are Bi..that would be cool if he could understand..I am only open with people that are open.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (9 July 2009):
Well in that case then you have the option of either
a) getting in ahead of the game and coming out (if you are ready etc)
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b) just letting them build up a rough idea for themselves and then confirm it. Only your close friends are going to know you well enough to notice you checking guys out.
It's up to you and how your life works really. This is different for every person.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't kno why it says I'm a female. I am a boy lol
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (9 July 2009):
This says you are a girl.... so I don't get how someone seeing you checking out a boy would make you want to come out?
I wouldn't tell people you are bi till you are ready to date a girl.
Or if you think they'll all accept it and you don't mind word getting out and EVERYONE knowing.
Good Luck!! xx
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