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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I like this man at my work.(plz NO comments on office romance) Things have been going good btwn us lots of flirting and talking getting to know eachother kinda deal.He did tell me hes totally single and from what ive heard he really isnt seeing anyone. He donest flirt w/ anyone else and is actually very quiet and calm person except when it comes to me.When hes w/ me hes happy, playful and always making me laugh.He mentioned something about messenger and i thought itd be ok for me to give him my email address, since we seemed to connect.He says 'ok' and a few days pass he hasnt added me so i tell him to add me and he laughed at me. Nothing was said after that.I dont understand it at all...everything was going so good..until then! im not sure what to do on monday, do i ignore him or keep on being myself?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2009): Your co worker is not interested and probably gay.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (26 September 2009):
I would just ignore it for now. Guys also don't want to appear too eager, so he may add you eventually. Put yourself in his shoes...if he just gave you his email address would you go home immediately and add him? Probably not, for fear of appearing too eager or too desperate. Another thing is since he is your coworker he may want to keep things professional, so you never know. Continue being yourself of course, but I wouldn't mention anything else about the whole messenger thing anytime in the near future.
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