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Do I get back with my ex lover, as I always do, or do I stay with my new lover?!

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Question - (17 September 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 September 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have a girlfriend who ive been with for over 2-3 months. its good im happy. she made me straighter than i was before.

but now my ex-girlfriend wants me back. she a very attractive and she wants to be with me again like it use to be. i might even go to the same college as her and it seems pretty good being with her.

idk what to do bc i still like my current girlfriend. i know i could be happy with her but obviously im choosing my ex a lil more bc of looks. but idk

i dont want to make a mistake. and for more info. i usually always go back to this ex. with all my girlfriends. idk what it is she does the same as well. we both know that we go back to each other. idk if its true love or just attraction. help help help!!

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A female reader, sappygirl United States +, writes (18 September 2008):

sappygirl agony auntYou broke up with your ex for a reason. And for you to choose her over your current one based on looks is plain shallow. I kinda feel sorry for your current girlfriend because she deserves someone who is completely devoted to her and since this relationship is new, you're already thinking of leaving her for another girl.

I hate to think what will happen 1 year into the relationship. I agree with Emily. Break up with both, be alone, enjoy single hood then you will know exactly what and who you want to be with.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (18 September 2008):

You may always go back to her but you keep splitting up with her as well.

Why can't you be single for a while?

You can't risk hurting your new girl if you are attracted more to someone else.

Go your own way and stop trying to pick a girl.

Good Luck!! xx

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