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writes:if my partner isnt good in the sack do i fake an orgasm or just tell him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): Don't fake it. Just tell him that you would rather him do something else that you like instead because it feels better.
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reader, The Gentle Man  +, writes (1 January 2009):
 You tell him the truth. And instead of just saying he doesnt make you climax, suggest ways in which he can.Communication is the key.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2009): He probably thinks you stink in bed, too. You both need to communicate maturely; say what makes you feel good, what doesn't. Ask him, too. But, sometimes people don't have good sexual chemistry together -- they might be great lovers with someone else, but not with you, and vice-versa.
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (1 January 2009):
nither.
you should never tell a guy he is crap in the sack! it would ruin his confidence.
you should never fake either, because then he will always think that he really gets you going and the crap sex will continue.
what you should do is when you are in bed together turn it into a sexy game. show him where and how you like to be touched, be more vocal in bed. tell him where you want things to go next. ask him what he likes too. that way it's more erotic and he does not feel useless.
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reader, Arianz  +, writes (1 January 2009):
 Dear,
In this case you should speakup. Tell him what can make you orgasm but in a very sweet way...
Or you can make long time fore play....that will help you too.
I hope it will work...
take care
best of luck
arianz
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reader, roadman +, writes (1 January 2009):
 If you love him then teach him where to touch and how to..sex in it self is an art so it takes time to master it,
youporn.com is a good place to get info on tricks of the tade get him to watch it and learn from it..books are also handy..but u also have to tell him where you like it and how or its never going to get any better
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reader, searbear +, writes (1 January 2009):
 What makes you orgasm exactly?
Try being a dominatrix and tell him exactly what to do to make you orgasm unless you generally don't feel sexually attracted to him. Simple as pie.
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