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writes:My sister-in-law cheats on my brother, is it my place to tell him? My sister recently told me a secret that she made me promise not to tell anyone. My sister and my sister-in-law recently went out for drinks. Sister-in-law ended up hooking up with a guy from the bar in the back seat of her car. She confessed to my sister that she isn’t getting the attention she needs from our brother so she cheats. My sister doesn’t want to get in the middle of their relationship but I feel like our brother has a right to know. Now I’m trying to decide if I keep my promise to my sister and hope my brother can figure it out on his own or do I tell him what his wife is up to?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2022): What part of "this is a secret which you are not supposed to tell anybody " did you not understand ? You promised your sister to keep your mouth shut - then keep your promise. It's a sensitive issue, that's for sure, but not the kind of life or death emergency which would justify revealing a secret that you have sworn to keep.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2022): If someone confides in you and you promise to keep it a secret you should. How would you like it if you divulged things and then someone who promised not to pass it around broke that promise? It could do a lot of harm. Maybe brother should be more attentive. Maybe it is just an excuse because she is bored with him or very highly sex, you will never know.
And it is not your business.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2022): I would tell her a little fib. You were at the Pub and someone joked that your SIL name was under For A Good Time Call on the men's room wall. So you went in an blackened it. You're Welcome. Be more desecrate if you must, but we'd rather you be faithful. and Be Safe.
There no way of telling your brother to fuck his horny wife more, but most guys would treasure her. So it probably not all on her. Tell her to get him to couples therapy.
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