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writes:through a production im in, ive got to know this boy really well (he plays my partner in the play) and have begun to think that perhaps there's a possibility of our friendship developing into something more. when im around him, i just feel so happy and unlike i have with any other boy. he's been flirting with me recently, and has worked more intimate scenes between us within the play.however, he has a girlfriend (also in the play) who he's been seeing for about two months. they're apparently quite serious.im really not into any sort of cheating, and i highly doubt that he'd cheat on her (he's just not that sort of man). so, what do you suppose i should do? do i continue flirting with him, aware of the fact that whilst he's going out with his girlfriend nothing can happen?do i make my feelings obvious?argh! i dont know what to do.x
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reader, Manya  +, writes (1 April 2009):
Wow! Well, you're in a difficult position, and you can imagine how it is for the movie stars when they have to spend months in an imaginary situation with an attractive co-star while being married and also nourishing their private lives! Obviously, Ginalolabridga and Anonymous are right, and you have to respect the girlfriend. It must be painful to her, if she sees him flirting with you!! He may intend it just in the spirit of the play, and just enjoys working with you in a theater context. If I were you, I would definitely keep it professional, and think about going out with someone else,? If you can.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2009): If you're not into cheating why then would you ask if you should make your feelings obvious? If you don't want to get your feelings trampled all over, for your own sake I would cut down on the flirting. He can flirt with you and then take that excitement out on his girlfriend when he gets home while your just left with nothing but crushing on him.
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