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writes: Well I am back again with another problem. I recently broke it off with my boyfriend of 3years. The problem Im having now is with one of my close friends who Ive been talking to online for the past 6 years. (im now 23 and hes 24) He and I were always close. In the time leading up to me meeting my current ex, my friend and I both saw there was a strong connection. We were exclusive with how we felt with each other but we never considered ourselves a "couple" because of the distance. So when I met my current ex, he told me that I should take the opportunity and not to pass up having a real relationship cause he was unable to give it to me himself. We remained friends after that keeping things platonic. Now my friend is teaching in another country and will probably be there another year so we dont get to talk that often. There was a period recently that it was a month since we got to talk for an extended period of time and suddenly all those "old feelings" came back and I find myself thinking of him constantly and after getting to talk to him for that long made me realize how much I really did miss him. The way he made and still makes me feel is indescribable. I think in the back of my mind he might still have those feelings and I get mixed signals from him now. Do I bring it up to him to see if he feels the same or do I leave it as something "better left unsaid" since hes going to be away for a year? I also dont want to ruin anything between us. Please help!
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (18 February 2007):
 I'd say leave it alone for now. Since he's going away, there's no sense in getting tied down with someone you're not going to see. Go out and play the field. If your guy and you are still available after a year, then take it from there.
Good luck!
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