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writes:Do guys like girls with small boobs and going braless ? Also is it trashy to do so ? I'm asking this question because i started dating a new guy and he is great but he always wants me to go braless and likes to see my hard nipples through my shirts. I have small boobs and don't want to be made fun of for doing so.I'm not saying i don't want to in anyway i just want a couple male opinions so i'm not making a fool of myself in public places. I got a nice figure over all just boobs a bit small. My bra size is a small 36 B - not sure of exact size because some 36 B bra's are a little big and some fit perfect)Any advice would be apreciated.
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reader, N91  +, writes (8 June 2011):
 I was with a girl a bit back who hated her boobs as they were pretty small, but I loved them, no matter how much I told her that, she would always cover them during sex which was disappointing, but I told her I liked them anyways, and I truly did, not just to boost her confidence.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2011): Yes women with small breast have great nipples that poke out.my wife is 34b i love when she walks around the house with no bra just a t- shirt.small breast are the best!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2011): Hah! I am small breasted (small B cup or large A cup) and have a cute surprise that I only reveal to my lover: big nipples!
I am very modest in my dress and never go without a bra unless around the house and before my man. When I was younger I used to long to have bigger breasts but found that my large nipples where a turn on and so that was an advantage. I have to wear a lined bra to keep them from showing under my clothes though. My man likes my 'cute tits' as he calls them and the extra large size of my nipples. He is turned on that no one knows my special asset.
I am in my 50's and have ALWAYS worn a bra, through breast feeding and all. I think it preserves the shape of the breast longer to wear a bra. And even small breasts can sag and I did not want saggy breast in my later years.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2010): im a au natrel kinda girl,im 25 yrs old,i have been giong braless for 2 yrs...my breast are 30 AA, i get ALOT...and im tellng ya..ALOT of looks and glances from men...lol especailly older ones..im assuming they think im ony 18...lol*blush* even got a goofy look from my male nieghbour kinda staring at me with a goofy grin on his face..and looking like he was about to start drooling...lol ummmm soooo YES im telling you men DO love little perky braless ones....you'll deffinatly turn heads!((: release the beast from the cage!..lol
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reader, ludo63  +, writes (22 October 2010):
I LOVE when girls with small boobs going braless!! and I like so much to see their hard nipples through the shirts....
It's really very turn on for me and want say thank you very much to every girls with small titts that going braless and show their hard nipples through their Tshirt because they give me really a nice time!!
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reader, boobies +, writes (18 August 2010):
My message to lost1977,
Boobs are made to enjoy their natural freedom instead of being contricted on a 24 hr basis 7 days/7 in a bra.Doesn't matter whether or not your boobs are the smallest ever.You shouldn't hesitate one second to regularly go braless in public for your man.He will boost your confidence in youstarting to do that and in no time, you will start enjoying it and surprise him nicely with that without him even having to ask.We men love boobs to death and would prefer by far a girl who regularly goes braless than a girl who never does.Go braless and let your man enjoy the they your braless boobs jiggle in every direction as you walk down the streets with him or when you just burst into laughters.It is very pleasant for a man to enjoy this natural movement from his girlfriend's boobs.My girlfriend was a bit shy about that at first but it's now been 3 years since she has naturally and all by herself..without me forcing her into doing that...i was only all the time suggesting that she does it and she has become an adept.She has boobs the size of oranges with perky nipples piercing thru her tank top or lady's shirt and she looks awesomely hot going braless with poking hard nipples.She doesn't care who has a look as she is comfortable doing that and she does it because she likes it and also because of me.It is nnot trashy or slutty..wearing a bra is not conditioned by a law from the government it is something you do because that's the social etiquette but but you are free to go braless if you feel like it..it is your body and how confortable you are going braless...also it is more healthier than feeling like a "prisoner"..the way my girlfriends puts it..wearing a bra an unhealthy 24 hrs a day,7 days a week.Go for it Baby..go braless and the more you'll do it the better you'll feel and your boyfriend will compliment you and encourage you.Ban the bra and leave it at home most times as you go braless out in the streets.And i said leave that bra at home...not in your handbag.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2010): i'm a female with a 34b bra size, and i know guys love it when i go braless. at first i was really uncomfortable when going braless, but now i feel completely natural going out like that. i only hate when large chested girls go braless. i feel like they need more support than small chested girls. don't worry about hard nipples alot of guys are turned on and it's completely natural for girls. if you arent comfortable going braless, don't. don't go braless unless you're completely comfortable with the idea. and if you're uncomfortable and only going braless for your guy, find a new guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2010): i to think it's so hot to see a women go with out a bra. when she's showing cleavage and such it's a really big turn on. and i don't think it's wrong to go with out a bra.
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reader, girl watcher +, writes (2 July 2010):
I guess the question is. Does it turn your boyfriend on to see other guys looking at your breasts or does he get jealous. And even more important than that....Does it turn you on to know guys are waiting to see your perky nipples bouncing slightly in your shirt ????????? Thats even sexier...
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reader, girl watcher +, writes (1 July 2010):
Personally, I truely get as turned on watching a girl/woman braless in a t shirt or light shirt. Seeing your nipples hard and even a "hint" of the color is so hot. And I am the wierd one. I much prefer a solid "b" cup to a big pair. I will still be as excited to see them in 10 years. Enjoy your guy looking at them. It is so sexy and makes at least me crazy...
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reader, CG_n_SJ +, writes (21 June 2010):
First, do what is comfortable for you. Ask yourself if you would consider going bra-less without any outside influence or pressure. If so, then the answer to your question is-- there is a time and place for everything. Tacky is tacky, and tasteful is tasteful no matter the question. Family reunions with impressionable kids around (young boys or girls), probably not a good idea to go bra-less. Date night or just hanging out (pardon the pun)... no problem. Have a sense of who you are, the setting that you will be in, and lastly what other people might think.
On a personal note as a man that LOVES small breasted women, I always enjoy seeing little boobs without the constraints of a bra. That in and of itself is not slutty, in my opinion. A girlfriend that is sexy for my-eyes-only, even sexier, but to flash more than a little boob or show nipple to anyone else, now that would be T-A-C-K-Y!
Ultimately if you are intimate with the guy and are comfortable with being bra-less GO FOR IT!!!! But only because YOU want to and not for anyone else!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2010): Absolutely! Women with small breasts have a big advantage over their large-busted friends. The main way to show off big breasts is through cleavage, and thats pretty much it. Small breasts look beautiful in all the other styles: 1. braless so hard nipples poke out, but not see through 2. see through of different degrees 3. shirt unbuttoned or crossover style dress that gapes open and low allows peeking in from the side 4. low scoop neck that allows "downblouse view 5. unlined triangle style bikini top 6. and of course naked. Trashy-no. Sexy-YES!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2010): if ur bf likes u widout bra thn jst for his sake don wear whn u alone wid him or on kind of a date whn seduction req buh nt evrytime bcoz either d boobs r small or big they need suddort n care n widout bra wid passin time they bcom badly shaped n ya i loveeeeeeeeee the small boobs widout bra n if u like to attract d mens in common thn go out widout bra....n d bst izz wear a white transy top widout bra whn its rain ur bf def gonna enjoy n others too.........keep enjoyin
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2010): hey..guys like boobs either they small or big its doesnt matter much to them...i prefer small ones..they look sxy,easy to carry n go wid many kind of dresses..widout bra they def look gorg..so be confidend n enjoy havin small boobs...
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reader, RicKCuk +, writes (11 May 2010):
Yes, I believe that is true! men especially enjoy a woman with pert smaller breasts that are braless! First of all who cares if a woman's nipples are erect and show through? It should not be an issue of embarrassment! It is natural! Our upbringing mostly through religious methods make this some sort of slutty evil! Hogwash! What is wrong with society here in America? I just don't get all this suppression and guilt! Go to Europe and it is moot! No one is raped because of exposing or showing nipples! No one is shunned or demeaned for it! Why are we so damn uptight? I see Americans in Europe and they rejoice in the freedom that here in America we strip people of via guilt and or for being a slut! Bad! Very bad! It's no wonder we have so many social problems! America has become the premier freedom suppressor in the free world! Ironic since America was suppose to be about freedom for all! As long as you don't break the rules! Hmmm interesting now even Russia has more sexual freedom than us!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2010): Let them little boobies go free. My gf has 34b bra but her boobs are too small for her bra
i love little boobs!
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reader, DrJohnca +, writes (25 March 2010):
Don't, don't, don't have fear that someone will make fun of you because of your braless state. To me, your 36B breast size is PERFECT for going braless. In my opinion, it looks VERY Tacky for women with C cups or larger to go braless since they look "out of control". There's nothing more beautiful than a woman with smaller breasts braless in a thin "T" shirt or tank, sheer top, open knit sweater, unbuttoned blouse, or VERY DEEP V neck sweater or top. Your smaller breasts will look awesome in any of these tops. My wife has many, many of these type tops to wear braless with her 36B's. I encourage her to wear them and she loves doing it for herself and me. We love watching the men admire and flirt with her. Mind you, there will always be some "old bitty" that will look at your top with your nipples protruding, but be confident and proud of your beauty.
An immediate compromise if you don't wish to go braless is wear a 1/2 cup bra. That way your breasts will be supported,but your breast and nipples will be totally open.
Be confident, be beautiful. Us men will love admiring you!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2010): My wife has quite small breasts. 34b. I love it when she goes bra less. It can be quite embarrassing for her. So you could try in a strange place like on holiday or in a different town. Small boobs are quite cute. Obviously not as sexy as a natural cleavage so you have to find other ways to turn your man on. This is one way. Be honest most girls 34b can go without a bra comfortably!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2010): hey. to be honest i dont really give a crap about how big someones boobs are. the only problem i have is when they are massive. that seem to take away from someone. they limit people pysically too. so a 36 b is fine with me. about the bra less.. lets keep it on. it is kinda trashy not to wear one. hope this isnt too late
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reader, aps73 +, writes (24 January 2010):
Absolutely prefer she goes braless if breasts are smallish.Small pert breasts tend to support themselves well, or hang only ever-so-slightly. I like the way they poke against the fabric of her shirt.With sleeveless tops, the braless look often allows for a teasing glimpse of the side of her breasts - the compromise, in my opinion, for the lack of cleavage. Frankly, I find this more alluring, anyway, than the cleavage between two large breasts.Nipples poking through a shirt are quite attractive - I disagree with the reader who said they are "gross," and contest his claim that "nobody likes a girl without a bra." I think a quick google search will prove there are MANY men who much prefer the natural look.I find that bras, more often than not, create lines and an artificial form. Natural is the way to go (unless the activity would be uncomfortable for lack of support).My wife used to go braless quite frequently (only stopped after breastfeeding three children). I miss the braless days.
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reader, Me112233 +, writes (10 January 2010):
Yes, guys like girls with small boobs, braless or not. (Have you ever hear of a guy telling a flat chested girl to put her top back on because her boobs are too small?)
Anyway . . . . as for small-breasted gals going braless, I say do so when it is rational do to so. If you are wearing a sheer white blouse, braless is just tacky. If you are in a work setting, probably not appropriate, so put the bra on. But if it is prom and your dress is of a design that will keep them in place, then braless is fine. Same with a whole myriad of summer fashion -- smaller chested gals can go braless wearing camisole-tops or summer dresses for example. When you go braless in these situations, it is very attractive/sexy. As mentioned before, if you go braless in some settings, or while wearing certain styles, it goes the other way, and it gives off that trampy image. When in doubt, put on the bra.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2010): I like small boobs the best because they always look beautiful without a bra. Large breats are just too sloppy to go without a bra. I would say a 36b is about the limit for going braless. 36b and below are perfect boobs and should never be in a bra. Don't wear trashy clothing braless, just keep it descret and beautiful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010): First of all, I prefer small breasts to large ones, and, secondly, there is nothing "trashy" about going bra-less, it is natural and beautiful. There is nothing hotter to me than a woman with really small breasts. I don't know why, and it seems that most men think the bigger the better, but I am really turned on by women with really small breasts.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2009): i like small boobs they look better than big boobs even so i like both but i prefer small boobs so dontworry everyone was diferent likes so just do whateveryou feel like.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2009): Doesn't matter what size. All boobs are beautiful. They are what makes a woman look physically feminine and gorgeous :)
So don't worry about size people. My man loves my big boobs and my friend's boyfriend can't get enough of her little ones. It takes allsorts.
I'm with ohdearitserika on this one. If it's really not you then don't go there. Yeah it'll turn him on but if your strutting along the street like that then it's going to look a bit cheap. Get some sexy lingerie and see if he still prefers you without ;). Never do anything you don't feel comfortable doing. There's other guys out there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2009): More information needed in order to help you. You probably should post some pics.
Seriously now.Stop teasing us. We love all boobs.Well maybe not granny boobs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): I much prefer small boobs and love when she goes braless. Small boob women are so much more sexy than large boob women.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2009): Small boobs are sexy I love them. And when ladys with small boobs go with out a bra I get turned on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2009): Ok I'm not a guy but I think its def weird when ladies don't wear bras in public! Downright weird!
Maybe you can in the house when it's just you and him and stuff but in public? ... Spare the people please haha not that your boobs aren't beautiful I'm sure they are it's just... I don't think most members of the public at least where I live would feel comfortable seeing your nipples
Also I don't like it when females make general comments like 'oh i'm too small i'm a B cup'
I mean... I'm A cups- so what's that make me?
Its about in relation to body size and type.
So you shouldve said 'I think I'm too small for my size' and then stated your size.
Just a suggestion.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2009): Most of them are right. It's up to you, not your BF to determine what you wear outside the house. I wouldn't want my GF to braless in public, and I don't get turned on when the nips stick out. I'd only find bralessness attractive in a prelude to making love. It pushes my buttons when a girl slowly undoes her blouse revealing no other clothes underneath (but a sexy bra is equally alluring).
In all other cases, bras are there for a reason, and knowing the right size is beneficial for both health and looks. They're form and function you know, just buy the attractive ones. It should be ok if your BF requests you to forgo the bra in private moments and if you're comfortable with him, but elsewhere, please keep it on. Besides, a B cup is in no way flat and could certainly use some support.
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reader, Jaimed1972 +, writes (26 March 2009):
I love when women go braless, doesn't matter if there big or small. My wife has 36B's also. I personally think there smaller because they don't fill out her bra. She wears a thicker bra because her nipples are constantly hard. She won't wear a lace bra, which sucks but most of the time She is braless anyways. She is an a assistant manager for a large company and as soon as She leaves work off comes Her bra. I find them everywhere. Any other time She is braless and doesn't even say a thing about it. She is the type where appearance is everything. If I have a wrinkled shirt or my dress shoes don't match my belt I hear about it. Her boobs aren't firm but they don't sag either. They look like cones sticking out with a big nipple. They jiggle when she walks around. I think it is sexy!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): I think that's great....keep up the good work
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009): it should be your decision and no-one else's. Personally i like small boobs and appreciate seeing women going braless, but at the same time i also feel a little embarrased for looking. if you,re comfortable going out in a seethrough top and no bra then go for it (i hope i bump into you in the street!), but if not, save it for you're private times together. And if your BF cares for your feelings then he should go along with your decision
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009): it should be your decision and no-one else's. Personally i like small boobs and appreciate seeing women going braless, but at the same time i also feel a little embarrased for looking. if you,re comfortable going out in a seethrough top and no bra then go for it (i hope i bump into you in the street!), but if not, save it for you're private times together. And if your BF cares for your feelings then he should go along with your decision
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2009): It is your own personal decision.. NOT your boyfriends. I personally don't wear a bra in the summer but in the winter do. Try not wearing one and if you like the way you look than there yah go, but if you don't you don't. As simple as that, it is your body not anyone elses.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2009): First, small breasts with good shape are the best. They are perfect for going braless because they don't hit your knees and they aren't "hefty" enough to weigh down and do a whole lot of damage over time. If you've got a guy you like and want, don't hesitate to do what pleases him. I do whatever my wife wants to me to in order to please her, and she does the same and we've been happily married for quite sometime.
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reader, daletom +, writes (2 January 2009):
OK, my wife is about 34A (on a 5'9 frame) so I think I know a little about small boobs.
I LOVE hers! She is braless most of the time. That makes her very accessible for a respectful, gentle, fondling when we kiss or embrace. Her natural shape - including the nipple bumps poking through her shirt or blouse - is quite feminine, VERY attractive, and not the least bit sleezy or trashy. I'm actually quite proud of how she looks and don't mind if others enjoy it. When her nipples are especially hard I might tease her ("What game are you playing? It looks like you're two points ahead!") but she knows it's a natural part of how she's made, and nothing to be ashamed of, and rather enjoys the attention. I'm not aware that ANYBODY - male or female - has ever made her feel foolish for being braless.
That is her. You are YOU. If you feel it is unattractive, or improper, or indecent, to go braless then you shouldn't go braless. Let your guy know that your shape is for HIM to enjoy, and you don't like to be seen like that in public.
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reader, LIO +, writes (2 January 2009):
 Yes, maybe because guys like the confidence it displays. But like it was mentioned before bras do serve their purpose keeping the chest from sagging unnecessarily so dont over do it :) save it for those special occasions if you are comfortable even doing it at all. Try it and see how it feels for you. You never know til you do. Take care
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reader, a_decent_1  +, writes (2 January 2009):
 36 B are "Small Boobs" ...? You sure ma'am...?
Second, Nobody likes a girl without Bra.. !! They look Out of shape to say the least.. !! You BF is an exception and I don't think you need to do anything you feel uncomfortable with.. !!
It's quite gross for a girl to show her nipples off her shirt.. !! I think most with agree to this.. !!
G'day
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (2 January 2009):
 First go to www.Lindaonline.com ( they got good advice on getting the RIGHT size & style bra.) Having the right fit on bra's is GOLD! I wore the wrong size for years and one day I got fitted and was surprised how comfy bra's are lol SO out went all the un-sexy sportsbra's and hello new sexy ones!
Secondly, if you don't want to go bra less, don't. Do it for "special occasions as a surprise. Whether you have small boobs or big ones wearing a bra is a good thing if you want them to keep their shape. Yes, even small boobs can sag.
I envy small boobs. Used to get teased when running track that if I bounced to much I would get two black eyes....
Wear sexy bra's and be proud of your body JUST the way it is!
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