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*arah29
writes:Ok I'm trying to work things out with my boyfriend who cheated on me 3 years ago. There is a possibility he is the father of a little girl that is now two years old. My question is if a women asks a man what if I told you I was pregnant would you take me to get a dna test and the man says yes then the woman says if you did that I would never be your friend again. The man ask the woman are you pregnant she says no (when she really was) then after the baby is born you see her and she says this is my new baby and your the father. Does that seem to you that there is a possibility that she must have slept with someone else too and just waited till the baby was born to see who it looked liked? My boyfriend will be getting a dna test done soon. He has told her that he is getting a dna test and she says if that's what you wanna do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008): Her behavoir does sound suspicious but it is very difficult to judge. Be happy that he is not just taking her word for it and that he is having a DNA test done.
I can only imagine that this must be a difficult time for you.Remember the words of Paul-Emile Bourduas:
"The past must no longer be used as an anvil for beating out the present and the future".
Good luck, I do hope you get the results you are hoping for.
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reader, tux +, writes (6 December 2008):
 My own personal opinion, I would say yes, chances are that she may have slept with another guy around the time of pregnancy. But that thought is running on the theory that she is trying to guilt him into not taking a DNA test prior to telling him. That's the assumption here.
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