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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2023): It sounds like your wife could very well be cheating on you. Get her phone and go through it.
My bet is that she is cheating on you. There have been quite a few stories over the last few years where teachers are cheating on their spouse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2023): Yes. From what you’ve said, my own instinct would lean towards her having done something. Take it easy, consider what you want in life and ask her directly - no wild emotions, no anger or tears in your part. The more guilty or scared you make her, the less likely she’ll answer sincerely.
It’s life, shit happens unfortunately. Have the chat. Good luck.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (16 January 2023):
 Maybe one of her friends mentioned how this is received.
You could ASK her (without accusing her)?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2023): I did the same thing after 20 years just because I read somewhere that it makes a difference and guys really like it. I felt sick for few hours but didn’t let him realize and it worth his satisfaction! Don’t think too much!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2023): She is a teacher and was off for break over the holidays.
While I was at work she went to lunch with a “friend” and spent a day shopping. She went into great detail telling me about her day shopping.
On New Years, we went out for dinner. When we went to bed she rolled over and said she was tired, then laid awake for an hour.
Over her two week break, we were never intimate.
The day after New Year, I told her I was confused about the lack of intimacy. She just said she has been tired.
It just doesn’t add up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2023): No.
She has always liked to do things and have the risk of being caught in the act.
She has talked about doing it in the back seat like when we were younger. Gives me an uneasy feeling when she is on long shopping trip and returns with little to nothing. Especially when she is not interested in sex for weeks at a time.
When we were together last, she said I was the best ever. In the past she has told me I am the only one she has been with.
May sound trivial, but there is just a gut feeling.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (14 January 2023):
Is this the only thing that makes you think she is/was cheating?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2023): I am not complaining
I have had a feeling she was cheating and this didn’t help.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (13 January 2023):
 Maybe its just something that she was always afraid of doing, but at the end of the day its any ones guess.
Maybe after all these years she just thought what the heck and just go for it.
Not sure if she just picked up the skill on the side, i would guess that it was a pure spur of the moment thing.
You will have to wait and see now if she does it next time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2023): I am not complaining, it was great
I have just had suspicions that she is cheating and it
When I asked her why now, she said she was always selfish and wanted to to finish on top, but she has made me cum many times with oral and was never receptive to finishing in her mouth.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (12 January 2023):
Impossible to know.
More likely, she read that men found it hot and she went for it.
It's not "proof" of anything".
It's not uncommon that the older we get the less we worry about how others perceive us. Maybe she was curious and went for it.
Are you complaining?
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