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writes:Hello,I previously posted a question asking if anyone thought a girl liked me, the kind people who replied 100% agreed that she did.She broke up with her boyfriend a week or so ago. Last Monday (after she had broke up with him) she continued to act flirty with me etc. I finally got to be alone with her for 10 to 20 minuets or so, she gleamed at me and I just stared at her and did the same and didn't know what to do! I was so stupid she walked off as she had to go and then that was it! For the rest of the week she ignored me and acted as if we weren't friends. Did I miss a key opportunity to get to know her more? Is their any hope? I'm so upset and annoyed. I adore her but don't know what to do! Any advice would be excellent!Thanks
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (4 March 2007):
 Unless she emigrates, you still have a chance.
Get out there and talk to her before she hooks up with somebody else! Like now.
Good luck
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (4 March 2007):
 When you shared that 10 to 20 minutes together i think she was expecting you to do something, as she was acting flirty with you ect. Ok she gleamed at you, and you stared back at her, this was your green light to do something there and then. You diden't make a move so she simply thought you were not interested and walked off. This would explain why she ignored you for the rest of the week.
If you really like this girl you have got to ask her out soon, she won't wait around forever. Ask her out casually to start with, maybe a coffy or something, somewhere where you can both chat, then take it from there.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2007): I would expect that she feels a bit embarassed! She broke up with her boyfriend for what ever reason and so she is probably a bit upset over that. But also she probably thought that this would be yours and her opportunity to 'get to know each other better' but you did nothing and she probably thinks that was either a.) that you're unsure of yourself and that would make her be unsure of whether to put herself out there or b.) she thinks you don't like her!! so you have to make the first move and tell her how you feel!
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