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*ilentangel
writes:hello therei am a 16 year old girl and have been in many traumatic and emotional relationships even at this young age. with struggle i have allowed a new guy into my life which i vowed myself not to until next year so i could recooperate from the previous relationships. even though there have been few they have been long and meaningful.to get to the point i told this guy about my former past and how i was uncomfortable in sexual activities due to this. i dont even know if we are boyfriend and girlfriend ive known him around 2 months but this was the second time off seeing him as what i thought being in a relationship as he was very sweet in talking to me so we went the whole way together meaning we had sex. after we did it he got a phone call and seemed in a rush and needed to go even though acting very apologetic then was telling me the phone call was his father and he had found out by seeing us enter the hotel together. this made the guy very upset and said his father wanted nothing to do with him so with that he dropped me off at the bus stop and now im at home very confused also to add to the confusion after the act with him full knowingly knowing my name he kept pronouncing my name incorrectly. he said he will text me tonight i just wanted to know have i been used to get what he wanted then left? is there any advice on how i should handle this problem? ps this was the first time i had sex willingly even though i wasnt a virgin it did hurt and now im hurting on the inside as well. please awnser back mysterious wrighter
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reader, mz_lani1  +, writes (22 December 2008):
 There is a possibililty that he did use u, but then its u that allowed him to do such a thing n its making u feel this way..u need to stop trying to find wutever u are trying to find in men..
Give urself time to find urself..let alone, be content with who u really are..u r still young, baby girl..be around loving friends n families..hang out n stop having sex with individuals u barely kno..get to kno them longer without having any intimate feelings..
Know wut u really want and dont get urself into BS that u do not wana go thru after the fact..k..now take care of urself n hang out with good friends that wont use u..
Happy holidays n keep me posted..
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