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writes:I have been dating this guy for about a month and have been telling him all along I don't want a relationship but he's been trying to convince me that we should be together...it seems like it's moving toward that direction until the newest development. Preface: He, his good friend, my friend, and I went out and did a little (or a lot) of drinking one night. My friend and his friend hit it off...ended up hooking up that night. The guy I am dating (according to my friend) put his hand down her pants at the end of the night and said he wanted to "F*** both of" us...with me in the other room! He denies it, says he only flirted with her to get back at me earlier in the night for me talking to another guy (who was gay, for the record). So, I don't know my friend well enough to know her honesty, but I don't see her making up something so hurtful. But at the same time I didn't see this coming from someone who has been so seemingly trustworthy all along. Don't listen to him and break up with him anyway? What do you think?
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reader, katatonik +, writes (7 December 2008):
 Sounds like a little more than casual flirting. Unless you believe your friend is trying to break the two of you up for some reason, I'd believe her over him. Telling you probably wasn't easy for her; I'm betting she was concerned you might blame her some too, or think she had done something to invite the attention. And even if he only flirted with her to "get back at you," this is not a good precedent. Are you ready to get romantically involved with someone who will try to hurt you emotionally over any perceived slight? Your call. Good luck =]
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