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female
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36-40,
*ubblygirl
writes:I need an opinion on this shady guy.A guy I was seeing at one point seems to really like attention from girls. We had spread apart by the summer but by then he started off liking one girl at work who he texted constantly, wrote love letters to, hung around her and went to parties with her. Then, halfway through summer, he changed his mind and started actually dating another girl who he also sent some presents, texted all the time,went to parties with. When summer ended, he wanted to keep it going and planned to spend time at Christmas with her and fly to see her on his spring break. To me that seems like a big deal, no? They dated for 1 month before she moved back to school and he cheated on her a week after she left as well as having several online emotional affairs. So she found out a month later and broke it off.This guy did some of the same things with me; texting me, giving me presents, hanging out, even planning for the future, but we never got into an actual relationship like with her. Does that mean that he liked her more and that I didnt matter?I was seeing him for a while, but just cause he wanted to travel to see her and actually get in a relationship with her, does that mean he liked her more or was she an object like other girls in his past?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2008): Whatever he thinks of you, with a history like that, I wouldn't trust him. Some men do change, but many don't. If his behaviour is just like that before, then it's a pretty good sign he's going to repeat what he's done. I'd end it before you get hurt and find someone who has some respect for you.
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