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anonymous
writes:I had my first real boyfriend for a long time and then i cheated on him with his friend and i dont know why really.But then he broke up with me and he is going out with this slut and i just want to him to be with me again and ever since we broke up i have been so depressed.what do i do?
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reader, Teacake +, writes (11 November 2008):
 Live and learn! You messed up big time. Cheating is bad enough and with his friend? Hopefully you learned a lesson. You'll get over this. Leave him alone for now. If he did that to you, you wouldn't forgive him.
Just send him a note saying how sorry you are and that you understand how insensitive you were and that you also understand that he has every right to be angry.
Unless he was being abusive and you did that to get back at him. Love is very complicated. Never never do that again for your own peace of mind and self respect.
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reader, cyborgninja911 +, writes (11 November 2008):
 Maybe you should find someone else, either that person will make you happy or will at least make your ex jealous. Make him regret dumping you. Don't let him see you depressed, it will only fuel his own ego, act like it doesn't bother you, if you do that, it will start to bother him!
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reader, xxzoehunnixx  +, writes (11 November 2008):
 OMG! I've been through a situation just like this ...... you should get over him, if he wants 2 have a girlfriend that's a slut then thats his problem. Don't let it worry you! You won't be able to get over him straight away but you with will time, you just have to accept that you won't get over him just like that, be partient hunni! You might even want to get yourself a new boyfriend, see how he likes when he knows you've got the better lover! Take Care xxx
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