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26-29,
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writes:So I have this problem that has been bothering me for quite some time. It started last October when I started talking to this guy from my school. We talked every single day and I developed strong feelings for him. I might even go as far to say that I fell in love with him. But it didn't seem he felt the same way. During Spring Break, he got mean and said rude things and I abruptly ended the friendship. During the time our friendship ended, I developed feelings for someone else and he asked me out. We've been dating for 2 and a half months now and I rarely talk to the first guy. But the BIG problem is, I still am in love with the first guy. We don't talk as much we used too but when we do, I get these strong butterflies. He has a girlfriend now but I don't know how to stop liking him. I feel terrible for dating my boyfriend while having feelings for another guy. What should I do? Should I stop thinking/talking/remembering the first guy all together? Or should I talk about it with them? Please help, I'm so confused on what to do! ):
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (15 May 2011):
 Hi
This guy has shown he has moved on with another girl, and there is nothing you can do about this. He ended things with you in a nasty way because he probally was too weak to be man enough to say it was over, so took the easy way out by starting to be nasty. Why would you want to go back with someone as cold as that? it sounds like you have a great BF now, but if your feelings are still strong for your ex, then maybe you should be on your own, as this is not fair on the guy your seeing. Take the time alone to think about what you want to do next, but you have to put the past behind you and move on. I know you must be hurting , and its not easy, but its the right thing to do, and the best thing for YOU to do. Then this will give you some idea weather you want to continue seeing your new BF or weather you need to move on.
I hope this has helped
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reader, Fernando Garcia +, writes (15 May 2011):
Tell your current boyfriend how you feel. Tell him as soon as possible so you won't hurt him as bad. And for the other guy I honestly think he doesn't deserve you. I mean he was a d**k with you. And I'm sure those feelig will go away eventually. Just be honest
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