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writes:im 17 year old girl and im dating a guy thats 18 for just over a month now.recently when ever i think about him which is almost all the time i start getting what feels like heart cramp and feel the need for a hug.also when im in my room and i think about him i start to cry loads im not sure what is causing this but its confusing i know it cant be love coz im only a teenager and teenagers have crushes not love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2006): Actually, it could be a lot of things, sometimes dating can make us feel lonely because it brings up how a lot of our so called close relationships with family and friends are pretty superficial...sometimes when you feel this way like you need a hug, you need to go talk to your Mom or Dad and tell them how you feel, try to get a little closer to them so that you remember who you are and that your family does love you, and perhaps you have grown a little distant from them in all this growing up you are doing and you are feeling the relationship with your family is superficial which makes you feel lonely...sometimes the boyfriend relationship brings up some of those repressed feelings that really don't have a lot to do with him or whether or not you love him, but are just about you and things you need to work out for yourself....and if your boyfriend is nice to you, then that is great, just breathe and enjoy his company for now and don't worry too much about being in love at your young age...enjoy having a special friendship with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2006): It is possible for teens to be in love - or what they believe is love, unfortunately the meaning of love isnt really clear (normally) until ur much older, ur not overly emotional at all, just enjoy being with him - only one thing tho- make sure you dont get hurt.
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