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Crush on my housemate!

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Question - (2 March 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 2 March 2011)
A female Hong Kong age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i studied abroad and had to share a house with a guy that i just met. he's from the same country i came from. at first i felt nothing more than friendship relationship.. however as time passes by, i started to fancy and admire him..

we can really talk about any topic till late at night while studying.. he told me and showed me his ex-es pics.. i know that he's close with a girl (long distance relationship) and so do I.. but we both have no bf n gf.

i'm just started to feel interested with him.. i just like his character, his look especially is sooo my type.. BUT... i'm just afraid that it is just simply a crush or a fling.. not a real one.. and moreover, he's my housemate.. im kinda afraid to show him that i have a certain feeling for him, it'll make things awkward. so what shud i do?? shud i just avoid him slowly? i'm kinda scared if this feeling grows stronger day by day..

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A male reader, JackieHK China +, writes (2 March 2011):

hey, i'm from HK too, but stay in shanghai now, i think you should let him know slowly.. take it slow.. is nothing like a mistake in love,

able be brave to love, and take the right and bad..

i'm in love with a girl that she has a boyfried(they are long distance relationship) she keeps saying she will get married with him one day, but she does love me alot...so we still together...

who knows what will happend tomorrow, ask yourself if you do like him, let him know...

If you chose to like him and start a relationship, then go for it, be brave to love and be brave if get hurt...

sometime Love is around, are you ready to take it..

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (2 March 2011):

Honeypie agony auntWhy not just get to know him? Avoiding him would be even more awkward and professing your crush may be "premature".

Hang out with him and see if it's a crush or more.

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