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writes:my sister in law is totaly crazyto make this short as much as i cani am suffering from a sexless marriage due to my wife's very low to non-existant sex driveher elder sister whom is very close to her used this fact to seduce me(( though she is married to a very good but very buisy man))into a nonsence emotional affairinfact she started flirting in a very visual way since my early engagment days to her sister !!but after marriage she used the facts she knows to seduce me and to drive me carzy in every possible way !!and i admit i almost fill for her..she started flirting extinsivly with me in a very evasive way so she wont get caught and i flirted back for some time,suddenly she decided to tell my wife about every thing and she claimed that she was treating me like a sister but i have cruel intentions and missunderstood her!!i had to explain to my wife after shed put me in real troubleand i admitted to my wife about every thing but my wife still favour's and believe's her siter over me,as a result i told my wife to tell her sister to to leave me alone and to reduce my contact with her to the lowest possible levelbut again her sister is chasing mewhat i disperealty need to know iswhy is her sister is so obsecced with me well i know that i am very good looking young manbut i am not the only good looking man arroundand besides if she wants me this much why is she making this drama with her sister??i am totaly off with her but i need to understandwhats wrong with her??is it possible that she suffers from a severe personality dissorder??please girls i need your help
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reader, johannabanana  +, writes (21 July 2010):
 Well everything was all you needed to know... You also admitted your wife was the favoered child as I suspected. That is your answer. Stay around family and make sure you're never alone with her.... What is the problem? Is this like the movie 'obsessed' or what?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@ adifferentprespective
i am doing all what you are suggesting my Dear still no use
and that is why i am asking for help hear !!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@ adiffirentprespective
i am avoiding my Sil but i want to understand in order to avoid her in an effective way
@ JohannaBannana
indeed wy wife was favoured over her sister by thier parents and your answer was so statisfieng,
and about men and thier patholigical lieng to women i believe we do it because women want us to lie on them infact i only lie to my wife and my mother and no one else !!
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reader, johannabanana +, writes (20 July 2010):
This is definitely NOT personality disorder. I find that men use that often to describe woman who's actions seem radical due to ignorance. It is a fact that women are very competitive with each other. Sisters in particular. It could be that growing up as children your wife was the child to always get everything she wanted and her sister could have felt jealous. She could have seen you as something her sister has that she wanted to take so that for once she could "win." She also sounds very alone in her marriage and she probably has nothing better to do than take what her sister has. The fact is family sticks by each other and since men also are commonly pathological liars it is easy to believe she would take her sisters word over you. Women trust their girls more that their men. That's just the way it is. get proof for your wife and stay away from the sister. Even tell your wife you never want to be anywhere near her without someone else around. ohh and look up ways to increase your wife's sex drive. Maybe a doctor would have an answer to that one? I thought sex drive was just natural to human nature.
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