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writes:Why would a guy not want to date someone who they are attracted to, someone who they have a lot in common with and always have a conversation about anything with? Why is he willing to sleep with a girl and not date her and is so afraid to commit? Reply to this Question
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reader, steve-tellme  +, writes (28 January 2009):
 the answer to that i beyond me. move on and find someone else is all i say and trust me i know thats harder said than done. my girlfriend walks all over me cause she knows she can as i love her somuch and want to be with her all the time. so as to why a guy would treat you like this is beyond me. its definetly not you. its not even the majority of men. maybe he just has commitment issues due to a past relationship. talk to him.
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reader, Kepi  +, writes (28 January 2009):
 Depends on the age of the guy for one thing.... maybe he's just working ot this dating thing and isn't prepared to commit for fear of making a mistake? Could be he thinks he's ok with the sex but no commitment angle??? Even though there is attraction, sometimes guys want nothing more than a physical relationship without the strings attached, other times, well maybe its a matter of timing, he hasn't got to the moment when he realises that actually, he would like things to take a serious turn.The only way to find out is to talk about it, ask questions, maybe even accept that its only a physical relationship and look for someone who is prepared to give that little bit more.
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