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writes:Hello everybody, my girlfriend and I have been going out for about a year now and everything has been going amazing. At about six months we started to mess around more. I have always respected her and she is the person who always tells me when she wants to do something, so I know it is not me rushing it but. I was fingering her for about three months and she loved it. She was having back problems due to a cheerleading accident and had to get a couple epidurals to help with the pain. So we took a bit off from doing anything for about two to three months and just started up again about three weeks ago. Now even when I am gentle, very gentle, with my nails clipped and all, and not going in and out she tells me of pain afterwards for about five to ten minutes, or pain during it, or both. She will tell me if i get to rough and i'll calm down right away. I was wondering if anybody else had experienced the same thing. Also if anybody knew if the epidurals had anything to do with the pain during and after fingering now? And finally if anybody might suggest what I'm doing wrong and how I can fix it? Thank you so much for your insight.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2008): Thank you two for your help. I think we have figured out the problem. We have talked to each other more over the past couple days and we figured out what was wrong. We figured that it was the tenderness after not doing anything for a couple months and that we were rushing it too much and not waiting till she was wet enough. So far we have done it a couple times and waited a little bit and just eased into it much more. She isn't having any problems and she says its the best yet. But we both agreed that if the pain ever happens again we will take her to the doctor immediately. Thank you again for all the help.
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reader, buddys  +, writes (25 January 2008):
 It's not you. She should seek medical advice. Not to scare you, but this sounds like a problem that needs to be addressed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2008): Hi Hunny,
I have regular epidurals for a back problem it should have no affect on your lovemaking sweetheart if she is experiencing this kind of pain I would get her to go to the doctor as this maybe something quite different, Just to be on the safe side it could be that as you have slowed down for a few months she is a little tender but she may have a bladder infection causing the pain just check it out to make sure TAKE CARE WITH LOVE MANDY xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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