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writes:Hey All, Just in need of a bit of advice..2 weekends ago i went out on a night out with some friends, into the night i bumped into an ex - who i dated for 5 months. we were in love, but we just didn't continue the relationship as he was going through a bad time and i was always at work. anyway as i say we bumped into each other - i knew everyone he was with as we hung around in the same group - so drinks were flowing, we were dancing and i invited everyone back to my place to celebrate that i was moving house the following week. everyone left at 1am and he was still there helping me tidy up, he then cornered me and started the 'what if' stuff and saying how he felt.. i tried not to make it obvious i feel the same as he has been seeing a girl for a few weeks, so i pushed him away, but he kept going on.. we sat down and talked and basically told each other all our feelings, next thing we were cuddling up on the couch like old times, he was playing with my hair like he used to, tickling my arm like he used to.. just everything the way he used to!!!! talking about this 'crazy girl' that he has been seeing, how she has cheated and how he is leaving her.. then he went to leave, we shared a kiss at the door, but that resulted in us being in bed. i have tried to put it behind me, i locked the door to my old flat, and thought 'a fresh start' but i am thinking about him all the time, he is texting me alot wanting to talk again but i just don't know, any advice???
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2008): I don't see any reason why you shouldn't be together if you can trust him and you know for sure that he has sorted his head out.
Do you know that he won't hurt you again and tell you that he has to break up with you because of "issues"?
I would wait until he has broken up with his current girlfriend and wait for a while so that he can get over that relationship and be completely prepared for a new one with you.
Good Luck. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2008): Hi ask yourself one question, would you rather be with anyone else than him?... If You Love Him Then Give It A Go If You Feel He Is Honest And Trustworthy, I ended Things with my ex girlfriend she wanted me back for months and I did not listen when I realised She Was The One And I was In love With Her It was To Late She Has A New Boyfriend And Now Ive Lost Her Forever And To Be Honest I'd Probably Marry Her If I Could So My Advice Would Be Don't Say No Now Then Realise You Have Made A Mistake When Its To Late. Good Luck
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