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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Heyso there has been a girl i've been talking too and saw her once, then saw her again today and talked to her and she knew my name, so we talked and everything was good, then she was taking the bus so i took the bus as well and sat next to her, and we started talking and everything was alright, she had a smartphone and was on facebook, so i decided to add myself as a hint that we should talk, so she laughed about it and told me to add herso i did, and she talked to me first through facebook, we talked a little bit and i asked her for her number and it was planned wellso later i talked to her through her phone, and we were talking casual stuff then i told her i had a problem and told her what was wrongwith the problem i just said it as i wasnt looking for help but i told her anywaysbut i told her my problem and after, she didnt reply to me, so then a little later, i said, left me hanging? hahadoes this mean abort mission? or try again tomorrow and if she doesn't reply forget it?or should i catch her in person and start fresh againi guess it was a mistake "venting" not really venting but telling her my problemwhat should i do?
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reader, blondebombshell +, writes (11 June 2011):
she might have just been unsure of how to respond and thought that saying something might make it worse. I would try and talk to her again and make it obvious that you don't need her help, you were just talking :) x I hope that helps :) x
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