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writes:I'm 18 years old, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. We started having sex 4 months into our relationship. We endure sexual intercourse weekly, and i just cant have an orgasm. We have tried different positions and instruments , etc. I have also asked my doctor this question and she said it could be how long we go for or his size. (she was'nt really sure)I "think" i orgasm under water pressure, one of my girl friends told me to try it and i did and it feels good but I am still not sure what I'm doing wrong in bed or if i have something wrong with me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIm sorry this is my first time asking strangers online a personal question like this one.
I have tried doing it on my own but i did'nt like it, My boyfriends tried touching me everywhere possible down there for hours and hours. He bought me vibrators and he's used them on me and iv used them alone..and nothing.
i hate that he's my first, to him it's like he's not a man ( thats what he tells me. ) Im scared he's gunna get sick of not being able to pleasure me like he has with his ex's. I'v thought about all of this alot and im all out of ideas.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2009): Can you orgasm alone? Through masterbation? Most of the girl's I have been with could only reach orgasm through cliterol stimulation, and that had to be done during penetration or through manual or oral stimulation.
Spend a bit of time experimenting on yourself to see what works for you, look up techniques etc. when you find a way then incorporate into your sex life.
I think your attitude is a bit strange though, I've never "endured" sexual intercourse.
As I said though it's pretty normal not to have a full blown orgasm through penetration alone.
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