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female
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51-59,
*hreesome
writes: my husband has an average penis, he's a 61/2 and i'm 71/2-8 length. is that the reason i can't climax? we tried oral stimulation and it doesn't help. he's often asked me for threesonmes and we have in the past but not the right sizes. i'm tired and helpless. need answers. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, person12345 +, writes (30 September 2010):
If his penis reached the end of your vagina, it would most likely hurt, not make you orgasm. From how much emphasis you're putting on penis vs. vagina size, I'd guess you're putting waaay too much emphasis on penetrative sex for your orgasm. You sound like goldilocks, you're looking for the penis that's just right. As I'm sure you know, us woman have very few nerve endings in our vaginas. Only 25% of women can orgasm through sex alone. Do you masturbate? You need to learn to push your own buttons before he can push them. You should add in your own fingers in addition to sex, and you shouldn't rely on only his penis for your enjoyment. Maybe try a vibrating cock ring if you really want to get pleasure out of only sex.
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reader, Universe Man +, writes (30 September 2010):
You measured the depth of your vagina? I've honestly never heard of a woman doing that. And you think maybe because his penis doesn't reach the very back of your vagina, that's why you're not climaxing? Not likely. Are you able to climax when you touch yourself? Have you tried touching yourself while he penetrates you? Have you had other partners with whom you could frequently climax? Were they much bigger? More info needed.
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