A
female
age
26-29,
*nythingForhelp
writes: I'm sure to myself that i'm in love with this guy, we've been together for a almost a year, we broke up once but got back together. So lately he's been having money problems and his mom just had a baby, and he's been sooo busy with everything, he barely has time to talk to me. (mind you we're 14 years old) and we talked about it for a long time and we both decided that it seemed best that we werent together right now. Things were too crazy at home to handle a relationship(for him). I agreed, i knew it would make things easier for him. We're back to being best friends again, even though we both want to be together badly. But we both dont want a relationship now because we want to have some fun with our lives and not be tied down, the thing is we both want to have a boyfriend/girlfriend around highschool. Like around sophmore or junior year. Which is like 3 or 2 years from now. I really love him and i want to be with him, ive never ever felt like this with anyone, and he wasnt my first love, just to clear that up. My question, whats bugging me is, do you think its really true love? i know the saying if its meant to be it will be...but from your experience, do you think we could be together by then? I'm asking for advice and some stories that have happened to you, it would mean soo much if you replied(:
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reader, Honest Answer +, writes (24 February 2010):
According to dictionary.com,
love [luhv] Show IPA noun, verb,loved, lov·ing.
–noun
1.
a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person.
2.
a feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection, as for a parent, child, or friend.
I would say you love him. And I would say he loves you. Will you two be together forever? Only time will tell.
Good Luck!
Jeff
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