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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I met this guy at the conference our company held. At that time, I didn't have the idea that he is married. But when we get into conversation we are totally connected in everything, after a lot of unsuccessful relationship, i feel like he is the one, and worth a try.But the day before he left (we work in different country branches) he told me that he is married, I was shocked and at the same I had to decide to proceed further with him or step back. I chose to go back with him and stayed at his place that night. After he went back, we keep contacting each other.Recently, he seems to contact me less and less. I understand he think that our relationship is going nowhere.At the same time, I feel hurt by the choice I made, esp. I was cheated in my previous relationship, so I totally understand how his wife would feel if she found out.. Reply to this Question
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (7 August 2008):
 you were cheated on an you didnt like it so why do it to someone else ? have you really lowered your standards to disgrace yourself and have no respect? you had a choice in the begining to walk away but you took this path. it seems he got what he wanted so why bother with you? maybe he knew you would be to easy. hundreds of thoughts not always right or wrong. you can now lable him as a cheater so even if you had a relationship do you not think if you got together a few years or months down the line he do the same to you..move on and forget about this guy and have a good look at yourself, or unless this is the type of person you want to become a no good cheater? gd luck aphex
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