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36-40,
*lala
writes:Hi guys, i need ur help please..Im Asian, my bf is European. We have a normal sex life (4/5times a week). The problem is that i have difficulty to get my orgasm. We've tried evrything we know, fingering, oral, etc. I really want to get it. As im an Asian, sometime im shy to ask my bf to do this n that. Is that the pbm? Do u think what should i do to get ? Btw i often masturbated when my bf wasnt in my country, do u think this is the cause?Help me, plz n thanks alot..
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reader, person12345  +, writes (12 July 2010):
 Some women simply cannot orgasm without a very specific type of stimulation. If you've been using a vibrator, it's possible that's really the only way for you to orgasm. Try having him use it on you. If you've been using your hands, sit him down and have him watch you masturbate so you can show him your technique. Then next time, put your hand over his and guide it. If you're nervous, don't talk, just do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2010): If you are used to having an orgasm via a vibrator, yeah it is going to take some more direct stimulation during intercourse to have an orgasm. Men's penises do not vibrate. The answer is to have more foreplay and that starts outside of the bedroom. Women are emotional creatures, he needs to be nice to you, flirt with you and give you sweet kisses and hugs way before he makes his move.
As far as achieving orgasm with him, try to relax and focus on your body and your sensations and yes give him some direction, don't be overly concerned with "how you are doing" or his performance or his reactions, get out of your head and into the sensations of your own experience and it will happen sooner than later.
Hope that helped.
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reader, missbell  +, writes (11 July 2010):
Maybe you are one of those G clam orgasm girls Tell your girl want you want Dont be shy do your thing You got nothing to loss
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