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male
age
36-40,
*ranklydammy
writes:My problem can be said not to be a problem some times. There is this girl of mine (can't really callher mine yet) i love her the way a guy can love a lady, and i told her about my feelings towards her, but as usual at first she obliged which she explain to be because she just had a relationship breakdown (she broke up with her guy). She ask me to give her more time to think it over. All this while, we've been speaking via phone call (not that we never met, but rarely) but what really bothers me is that we've been trying to arrange how we can meet, which she's always the one raising the motion, the first time she came to my place, i went to the bank, so she left angered (though i asked her to wait for me but she objected due to reasons that everyone is looking at her and that the sun is harsh on her body) i was dissapointed and she was angry. Later we organised that we meet at my working place (dont be amused am just 20, but working prior to my admission to school, i dont really know her age, but sounds we should be in the same range of years) as usual, i was there waiting for her, and all she could do is to send me a text message that she cant come again that she returned back home because the place is too far and that i never told her how far it was. We were both silence toeach other for sometime, but now we agreed to meet this sunday at a place she will schedule by herself, i really need your advise, what did you think of this,i believe she loves me but she always complain about our ethnic differences, though she never told me that she agreed to my proposal but i think she would though the probability is 40/60. What did you think i can do, how do I talk with her on Sunday ( i mean how to convinced her, i really loved her and that all guys are not equal) Pls i believe you have banks of ideas of how to win her mind totally for me, PLSSS HELP, i dont think i can cope with her telling me NO, because have really grown with the fantasies of having her as my grilfriend (and if possible future wife) i think she does to, but i dont know what is keeping her from telling YES SHE DOES. PLS DO HELP ME WITH TIPS OR IDEAS OF HOW TO WIN HER LOVE.You can easily contact me on yclem4destiny@yahoo.com (for email) and didiinluv15@yahoo.com (for instant message)Am Clement O.From Nigeria.PLS DO NOT DISSAPOINT ME, ITS REALLY URGENT! !! !!!
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reader, Dr Vendetta  +, writes (9 January 2008):
 hey,
totally unrelated, you said you're from Nigeria, do you get spam emails from the British royal family saying they have £257,000,000 that they need you to help them get out of the country?
just curious
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (8 January 2008):
 If she is willing to meet you , she has given you the chance to show who and what you are.Just be your natural self and win her with your charms.Don't try too hard or overdo it .
Love covers a multitude or sins. When you love a person , you don't see the colour or the faults of a person. If you want her to love you , you need to be presentable and have those qualities that she will admire in you. Don't expect too high an expectation and don't put her on a pedestal.
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