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writes: if you feel guilty about something that you hve done wrong can that guilt make you feel angry? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2007): I think so. I think you may be mad at yourself, or just the entire situation. The best way to feel better about it is to be honest.
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reader, Sweet-thing +, writes (30 July 2007):
Yup. Big time. My b/f feels terribly guilty about divorcing his 2nd wife, and the mother of his two boys even though she's the one that filed. She also remarried fairly quickly and everyone suspected she was cheating anyhow. Fast forward 15 years later and she committed suicide. My b/f still feels guilty that he didn't try harder to keep the marriage together and feels that if they would've still been together she wouldn't have done that. Who knows, but the end result is, he has alot of anger inside of him that no one can fix but him and maybe a good counselor, which he refuses to go see. Guilt is a terrible thing to carry around with you and it will manifest itself in depression and anger. If you or someone you know is carrying around this baggage, professional help may be the only answer if they're willing to go see a counselor, or a pastor. I wish you the best.
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