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writes:Help please! I have had a relationship with my ex he is married as am I. I have not had sex with my husband in 2 yrs, not a problem as I don't want it. My ex had had an affair with me before but he got caught and again with someoneelse same result. He has now said that we can stay friends and talk but he can not see me as he feels guilty and afriad. I really want to see him, how can I deal with this?His marriage was arranged due to culture I have known him for 12 yrs and had a relationship of 5 before he married. miss him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2008): You have clouded the issues with your husband by having the affair. Be glad your affair is over it was going nowhere. You miss the distraction, the intimacy, the friendship. In actual fact neither relationships were right. Isn't it time you faced facts and found just one really decent one?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2008): Walk away, i know this will be really hard but it is something that you must do. Have some dignity and keep your head held high,you are in control of this situation and therefore you must take hold of the reigns and let him go. He is married, and so are you, so why cant you put 100% into your own relationship? Why dont you want sex with your husband? Why did you split with your ex in the first place? You need answers to all of these questions. If you need to have a good long chat with your husband then do so, or if you need to move on then go, but please stop and think of what you are doing and stop it now.
take care
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