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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: Dear Cupid.Is it possible for a guy that tends to be more sexually attracted to guys but more emotionally connected and attracted to girls have a relationship that works out with a girl?A relationship isn't all about the sex is it? and eventually sex with that person becomes natural?What are your views? Can a guy have a perfectly normal, loving relationship with a girl but is more physically attracted to a guy in terms of being sexual?In this case will the guy become sexually comfortable with his girlfriend as time goes on and as the couple get closer? Reply to this Question Share |
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female
reader, Doctor Elizabeth +, writes (26 March 2007):
I guess the main point here is honesty. If the guy really cares about the girl, he should tell her his feelings and be honest that sex is not the main attraction. I think that all people are capable of all kinds of love, platonic or otherwise, and gender is just one aspect to it.
As Will Shakespeare says, "To thine own self be true, and therefore, thou can be false to no man."
Best to you,
Doc Liz
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2007): Dear anonymous writer,
yes it is possible for a guy to be attractive to both sex this is called bisexual. no a realtionship isnt about just sex honestly many people rather have someone who loves them and cares for them more then just having sex...yes a guy can have a perfectly normal relationship with a girl and be phyiscally attracted to....the sexually comfortable with having sex with a female may come to the guy but only that guy can make the choice, even if that girl knows the guy is gay and excepts it they have all the sex toys that can help the guy getting closer to the girl...
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