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writes: I really need help! I'm 18 and i've fallen in love with a girl 4 years younger than me (A), i finished with my girlfriend (b) of 3 years about a month ago coz i realised i wasn't in love with her anymore. I kissed the girl (A) a couple days before that. It was the most intense kiss i have ever had, me and (B) had fantastic sex for about two years but it wasn't nearly as good as that single kiss with (A). (A) has moved a long way away and i can't see her but i've kept in contact and we've had a couple of really good convestaions and i asked her out on sunday night. I love her so much! Her mum really doesn't approve of us and she doesn't know we are going out. Her mum has tried to limit contact between us but (a) keeps ignoring her. My questions are is the age gap wrong? Have i been a complete prat towards (b)? Am i being unfair on (a) asking her to keep herself for me when i might not see her for months? Thanks in advance for all your help! Happy Christmas!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2007): Wow. I am 14 years old and my boyfriend is 18. We seem to share very similar problems. My parents hate the fact that he's 18 and won't let me see him. We are both so madly in love with eacother. We've heard the "you can go to jail .. " talk a million times with everyone possible. We both understand the consequences that we might face, but neither of us really care. No one can really understand what you're going through unless they've been in that type of situation. I'm going through it and I couldn't be happier. Even though our meetings are very limited, the fact that I know he will always be there for me, and that he will be apart of my future makes life worth living. I really hope all works well for you two! GOD BLESS!
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (22 December 2005):
 I feel like you did the best thing by breaking up with your girlfriend. I don't think you could have done anything else since you knew you didn't love her anymore and had feelings for a new girl. The age difference between you and the new girl could pose some huge problems for you. If she is only 14, then that will get you jail time where I am from! If her mother says she doesn't want you to see her then you pretty much have to listen to that. My advice to you is to go out and find a girl closer to your own age, it may feel wrong because you are so in love with the 14 year old, but what is worse a little heartache or jail time? Good luck to you and happy holidays!
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