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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi me and my ex boyfriend broke up 8 weeks ago after i had a miscarriage we had know each other years before we got together i moved in found out i was pregnant we were so happy then i miscarried he started arguing with me he avoided me i went out for 5 hours to my parents cos i needed a bit of space to get my head around things i used the same taxi company he worked for which i always used then he asked me why i didnt ask him to pick me up even though he had a go at me about picking me up the day before then he told me to pack my things and move out then he drove off even though he hurt me and left me when i needed him i still love him and feel so miserable without him we have had no contact since any suggestions what i should do next? Sorry this is so long thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2013): "and I'm saying you are" I left out the word *not form that sentence.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2013): Make contact and ask him to meet you for a coffee and a chat.
You need to talk this out OP and that's all there is to it.
OP I know a miscarriage must be a living hell for you. But for some reason, and I'm saying you are, most women seem to be of the opinion that they're the only ones it devastates or that it must be worse for them. That's wrong OP, it can be just as horrific an ordeal for the man too.
It's not just you who needs someone to be there for them OP, I've seen this before and those times it all came down to the fact that the woman felt he should be there for her because he couldn't possibly know the "true" pain of it.
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