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writes: I have been dating my boyfriend for 4 years now but we have never been very close physically although over the past year it has got worse we are close in every other way and he says he loves me and does still find me attractive but isnt in the mood often but it makes me feel like something is missing and makes me insecure because i think he must be attracted to someone else or it must be something im doing but when i talk to him about it it gets worse because he says he feels under pressure should I just accept we are never going to be close physically or should i bite the bullet and split up with him even tho it would break my heart?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2006): Sweetie, this not close physically thing sounds like a red flag. Your man might be gay or be hetero but with major hangups about sex. This is an issue you must address with him in a gentle but FIRM way. You can not sweepit under the rug. If he refuses to deal with it or share what might be wrong, then you may have to consider yr options. Good luck!
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