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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half, however we have never been out together we only go to his house, if we are out at the the same place with our mates he doesn't like us to talk or even look at each other. This is making me feel really down and I've realised I've lost my confidence. Please Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2008): Honey, when you're going out with someone (especially since you've been going out so long), part and parcel of it is going out different places, and showing you love each other in front of other people even. Is he a generally shy person? If he's shy, then I guess this is just his way of dealing with things. But if he's not particularly quiet or shy, then something's wrong here. Why would he act this way? You know, I've always though, if a guy treats you different around his friends, then it isn't working properly. He hasn't got anything to be ashamed of, surely. Try talking to him about it - ask him if he fancies going somewhere new for a change. Maybe he just prefers you to 'organise' stuff - it sounds a little strange, but he might not have many ideas of places you'd both like to go to. Although you'd think he would by now!
If it's making you upset, then something has to be done. So talk to him, ask him if he fancies going somewhere different for a change, and see how he reacts. Keep us updated :] good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008): Just tell him that you want to go outsome where with him!!!
Tell him you don't like the way he treats you when his friends are around !!! guys always do that kinda stuff when their friends are around and it's not right!!! Just calmy tell him how you feel. For as long as you two of you have been going out you should be able to talk to him openly.
I hope I helped in some way
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