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writes: My bf left on vacation on august 7th and is coming home on august 16th. I know its not that long but I love him so much and i miss him so much and i don't know what to do to make myself feel better and not think about it that much. I haven't slept that much since he left! Reply to this Question
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reader, baby_gurl676 +, writes (11 August 2006):
No offence because it isnt nice being apart from a loved one but it really isnt the end of the world. Ur making it sound like he has died or something. A couple of weeks is nothing and when he gets back you will love eachother more than ever. It will probably do you both good trust me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2006): I know it's hard when the one you love goes away. My fiance is in the Air Force right now and has been away since April 11th. It is not easy, especially at first. You just have to distract yourself and keep yourself busy. Spend time with family or friends, people who you have a good time with. It's okay to be sad over this, and it's okay to be happy as well. When my fiance left, all I did was cry and cry and cry, and then one day I didn't cry anymore, and I felt so guilty for not crying and missing him so much. You have to understand that whatever you're feeling is okay. Have you ever heard the phrase 'absense makes the heart grow fonder'? It's certainly true. When your boyfriend comes home, the two of you will be so happy and excited to see each other. You know it will be wonderful. If you simply can't get him out of your thoughts, think of things you can do for him to surprise him with when he comes home, or things the two of you will do together when he gets home. That stuff definately cheers me up. My fiance isn't coming home until September 21, and I always think about what we will do when he gets back, and it makes things so much easier. I hope this helps. I wish you the best. Feel better! Take care!
~RJGirl
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