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writes:My boyfriend said to me today that I'm not experimental with sex and that we are confined to four postions. But he said he is happy with our sex life. Any tips for the bedroom?
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reader, lovetokissyou  +, writes (9 March 2010):
well play games dress up or find new places that make you hot for eachother, try talking to him and see where that leads. sex should be fun and there are so many ways to get to were your wanting to be. play truth or dare with each other . make your own cards , put a list of things that you would like to try, and write them down on the cards and every time you feel like spicing up your sex life use the cards, and dont be afraid to try new things. if you need some help just ask.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (8 March 2010):
 In my opinion, most couples settle into doing a few sexual positions that work for them, and four positions is at least adequate. In other words, if it pleases, then do what brings about the desired result. But if boredom sets in there are plenty of variations to explore online. Here is a start:
http://www.sexinfo101.com/sexualpositions.shtml
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reader, veronika +, writes (8 March 2010):
 So he said "you're not experimental" but then didn't offer any tips himself? Why did he even mention it then?
Anyway...
Maybe start off trying new sex positions, ask him for advice if he has any or just research some online. I don't know the positions you usually do, so I don't really feel I can suggest any in case you already do them.
Role-playing is also a good way to 'spice' things up, talk about both of your fetishes or fantasies, see if they're viable.
The thing is, you really need to talk to HIM about this. Spicing things up in the bedroom should not just be your responsibility.
The best advice I can give you is to sit down and chat with him about it. You both have sex with each other, so who better to decide what to do in the bedroom? It would probably give a better outcome than random people over the Internet.
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