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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: i've been goign out with my girlfriend for 10 months now and i really love her, but lately i've been getting more attracted to my ex what should i do ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2010): I've also had this issue before. My honest answer is do what feels right. The fact is, you are young. If you are honest with yourself, you will probably realize neither of these girls are likely to be in your life forever. This is the time in your life, when you get the chance to explore who you are and what it is you want out of life. You can't do that by trying to force feelings out of yourself.
Be honest with yourself. Be honest with your girlfriend. And go with your gut feeling... good luck honey. The road ahead is a long one!
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reader, zebralove +, writes (20 August 2010):
Eh remember why shes your ex maybe?
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reader, acey lacey +, writes (20 August 2010):
you might be just going through a phase... but you have to decide if losing your gf is worth it to be with your ex again.
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reader, http:// +, writes (20 August 2010):
Apparently you didn't realize what you had until it was gone or your ex developed a trait that you find more attractive than before and you want to rekindle what you had with her. Ask yourself this, do you REALLY love your gf? I don't know how long you two were friends prior to the relationship but the term 'love' is used very loosely. Just because you are in a relationship w/someone doesn't me you are supposed to love them out the gate. Real love is developed over time and not just instantaneously. Does your ex still possess the same interest in you as you do for her? Is she aware of the relationship w/your current gf?
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reader, Georgiebbb +, writes (20 August 2010):
This also happend to me once aswell, i couldnt get my ex off my mind, i got him off my mind by spending more time with my boyfriend and eventualy i only saw my ex as just friend :)
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