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Bad memories...

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Question - (24 January 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 36-40, *ic85 writes:

I am trying to get help for something that happened to me when I was 5 years old. I was molested by my cousin, I lived with my grandma at the time and when I told her what had happened I got into trouble because she thought that I made it up. I finally got the courage to tell my dad and he didn't believe me either. When I told my mom she cried and asked my dad how he could just let someone get away with it.

I am married now and have a beautiful daughter. But sometimes my husband will do things that triggers that memory and I just start crying, then he gets mad at me. I have told him about it, but he doesn't understand I guess. I just don't know what to do, I don't like that my husband gets upset when this happens.

What should I do?

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